Silly post - HELP-
So wat do u do if the guy whom you've had a crush on for over 2 years, out of the blue, asks you out.
Invites you to a party where everyone expects everyone else to get high and drunk. And as much as u'd love to do all those thinsg, you've given up on crap like that. Naturally, he too wud be drinking and getting high and wat not and u'd feel the odd one out. wud u or wudnt u go?
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dilemma dilemma
Invites you to a party where everyone expects everyone else to get high and drunk. And as much as u'd love to do all those thinsg, you've given up on crap like that. Naturally, he too wud be drinking and getting high and wat not and u'd feel the odd one out. wud u or wudnt u go?
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dilemma dilemma
posted by Łãďŷ Øf Ðŗêąmš at 11/11/2005 10:13:00 AM
6 Comments:
go. (but only if your comfortable with the people that will be there. and comfortable with this guy being drunk or high or whatever) in my opinion theres no reason you shouldnt be able to have a good time without indulging if you enjoy teh company of those your with....
i agree with sammish! i realized that abstaining is good no doubt.. but then it gets a bit boring... plus if companys' good... y not... :D
Jesus Christ, girl - stop over-analysing/thinking about this so much. He asked you out. You go. Get drunk. Get high. Have a great friggin' time. And don't think about having any 'regrets' or anything like that, 'coz then you'll think the same thing in case you don't go. Life isn't meant to be planned out perfectly in advance and just as you want it. You've already made it clear that you're gonna feel uncomfortable if you don't drink or whatever, and you probably will feel a bit uncomfortable if you do. So? So what? Just go with the flow, have a good time, focus on yourself, and do whatever makes you feel good. You're still young. Don't stress about minor shit like this. Enjoy!
i dun think u need to go. i wudnt go. i mean to be honest, this happens to me, and im not looking for the smoking and drinking party type girl anymore. so i dont get down like that anymore. and its not tat i dont know how to have fun, bcz i do. ppl who smoke n drink to have fun actually dont know how to have fun--unless they are smoking and drinking.
but i still go and hang out wid friends who smoke and drink, but not on the regular. and if im looking for a mate, and i find that she does that on the regular--forget it. its not gonna work.
cya!
hmm... dilemma indeed. depends if you've quit for good or for sum severe reason. if not u cud jus let loose this one time.
get to c him and be with him as u always wanted.
then worry abt the next steps.
i'd say go for either way. leaves lesser room for regrets
go.
smoke a joint for me:)
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